Questions for couples, one card at a time

Just getting started? Skip the small talk.

New couple, or just new to each other? "First Dates" is light, curious and zero pressure — the questions you wish you'd asked instead of "so what do you do?". Perfect for the first few dates, a road trip, or anyone who wants to go past the surface without going too deep too fast.

1. What is something you are weirdly good at?
2. What did you want to be when you were 8 years old?
3. What is the best meal you have ever had, and who were you with?
4. Are you a morning person or a night owl? Be honest.
5. What is your go-to comfort movie or show?
6. What is a small thing that instantly makes your day better?
7. What song do you know every single word to?
8. What is your most controversial food opinion?
9. If you could live anywhere for a year, where would it be?
10. Action card: Show each other the last photo in your camera roll and explain it.
11. What is something you are looking forward to this month?
12. What is a hobby you picked up and then dropped?

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Say the good stuff out loud. Then say more.

Most decks ask questions about each other. "Things I Love About You" asks you to say them — out loud, to each other's face. Gratitude, memories, the small things you notice and never mention. The deck you come back to on date night, after a rough week, or just because.

1. Tell me about a moment when you felt proud to be with me.
2. What is a small thing I do that makes you feel loved?
3. Finish the sentence: "I feel most loved when you…"
4. What is something you admire about the way I treat other people?
5. What is a habit of mine you found annoying at first and now kind of love?
6. Tell me about a time I made you laugh so hard it hurt.
7. What is something I taught you without realizing it?
8. When did you last think "I am lucky to have them"?
9. What is a quality of mine you wish you had more of?
10. Action card: Give each other a 30-second compliment without stopping. No repeating yourself.
11. What is your favorite thing about my face?
12. What is something I did this week that you appreciated but didn't mention?

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Argue better, repair faster, understand each other.

Every couple fights — the strong ones learn how to fight well. "How We Fight" is about communication styles, what hurts, how we apologize and how we find our way back to each other. Not about winning. About staying on the same team.

1. When we argue, what do you need from me most — space, a hug, or to be heard?
2. What is one thing I do during a fight that makes it worse?
3. What is one thing I do during a fight that actually helps?
4. How did your parents argue, and what did you take from that?
5. Do you tend to go quiet or get loud when upset? Why do you think that is?
6. What does a good apology look like to you?
7. Is there something you apologized for but never felt was truly forgiven?
8. What is a small thing I do that quietly annoys you but you never bring up?
9. How long do you need to cool down before you can talk things through?
10. Action card: Look each other in the eyes and say: "Even when we fight, we are on the same team." Hold hands for 20 seconds.
11. What topic do we argue about most often, and what do you think is really underneath it?
12. When was the last time you felt I really listened to you during a disagreement?

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The practical stuff — finances, chores, careers, where we live.

Love is the easy part; the rest is logistics. "Money, Home & Life" tackles the real-world conversations couples avoid: how we spend and save, who does what at home, our careers, where we want to live and how we make big decisions. Unromantic questions, very romantic results.

1. How did your family talk about money when you were growing up?
2. Are you a spender or a saver? What makes you say that?
3. What is a purchase you regret, and one you would make again in a heartbeat?
4. How do you feel about sharing bank accounts?
5. What's an amount of money you think we should talk about before spending?
6. What does "financially secure" mean to you?
7. Is there any debt or money stress you carry that we haven't really talked about?
8. What is something you'd love to save up for together?
9. How do you feel about lending money to family or friends?
10. Action card: Each write down your top 3 spending priorities for the next year. Compare lists.
11. What chore do you secretly hate the most?
12. Do you feel the housework is split fairly? What would fair look like?

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Deepen your bond by exploring each other's worlds.

Dive into the depths of your relationship with "Couple's Voyage." This deck is designed to deepen your understanding of each other, exploring personal histories, hopes, dreams, and the little intricacies that make your relationship unique. It's a journey of discovery, where every card brings you closer and strengthens your bond.

1. What is your idea of a perfect date?
2. If we could design a custom perfume or cologne that represents our love, what scents would it have and what would we name it?
3. If our love could be represented by a dish, what would it be and what ingredients would go into it?
4. If our love story were made into a movie, what would be the title and which actors would play us?
5. What was the moment when you realized that you really want us to be together?
6. If we were to invent a new holiday to celebrate our love, what would it be called, and how would people around the world join in on the festivities?
7. What is your favorite memory of our relationship so far?
8. If you could go anywhere in the world with me, where would you go and why?
9. If you could describe our relationship in one word, what would it be?
10. Action card: Embrace your partner from behind, wrapping your arms around them. Stay in this position for a few minutes.
11. What is one thing that you’d like us to do more of as a couple?
12. Imagine we were to participate in a couples' talent show. What unique act or performance would we showcase, and why?

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Spice things up with playful and intimate explorations.

Add a spark of excitement with "Let's Get Naughty." This deck invites couples to explore their playful and intimate sides, with questions and scenarios that range from flirtatious fun to deep desires. It's a perfect way to break the routine, bringing laughter, blushes, and a deeper intimacy to your relationship.

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Connect deeply and discover mutual beliefs and ideals.

"Shared Values" is about finding common ground and celebrating what brings you together. Through thoughtful questions, discover how your core beliefs, life principles, and dreams align. It's an opportunity to see how your values intertwine, creating a stronger foundation for your partnership.

1. What societal issue do you feel most passionate about?
2. How do you approach decision-making and problem-solving?
3. Action card: Share a recent challenge and express how you think it felt for your partner.
4. What is your view on the importance of honesty in a relationship?
5. How do you value and engage in lifelong learning?
6. What role does creativity play in your life?
7. What importance do you place on community service?
8. What does it mean to be a responsible citizen?
9. What value do you place on personal freedom?
10. How do you deal with adversity and challenges?
11. How do you approach teamwork and collaboration?
12. How do you prioritize family and work?

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Revel in fun revelations and shared life experiences.

"Have You Ever?" is a light-hearted and engaging way to reminisce and share life's quirky moments. From hilarious mishaps to memorable adventures, this deck will have you laughing and reflecting on your experiences. It's a celebration of your unique journey as a couple, filled with joy and nostalgia.

1. Have you ever tried a weird food combination and liked it?
2. Have you ever been caught dancing in front of a mirror?
3. Have you ever had a "why do I have this in my fridge" moment?
4. Have you ever worn clothes inside out for an entire day without realizing?
5. Have you ever burst out laughing in a quiet room?
6. Have you ever laughed at a completely inappropriate time?
7. Action card: Do your best (or worst) dance move and challenge someone else to top it.
8. Action card: Imitate your favorite celebrity until someone guesses who it is.
9. Have you ever tried to cook something and ended up ordering takeout instead?
10. Have you ever confused weekdays and ended up somewhere on the wrong day?
11. Have you ever forgotten a word mid-sentence?
12. Have you ever been stuck in an elevator?

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Engage in imaginative 'what-ifs' and dream together.

Let your imagination run wild with "Hypothetical Scenarios." This deck offers a playground for creativity, with questions that spark conversations about dream scenarios, wild possibilities, and fun 'what-ifs.' It's a way to share dreams and laugh over outlandish ideas, bringing a fresh, playful dynamic to your relationship.

1. If you could have any superpower just for a day, what would it be?
2. If you could speak any three languages fluently, which would you choose?
3. Imagine you're a world-class chef; what's your signature dish?
4. If you could live in any book or movie world for a week, where would you be?
5. If you had to wear one color every day for a year, which color would you pick?
6. If animals could talk, which species would you want to have a conversation with?
7. If you could switch lives with anyone for a day, who would you choose?
8. Imagine you can time travel; which era would you visit first?
9. If you could invent something that doesn't exist, what would it be?
10. If you had the chance to go to space, would you take it?
11. If you could be any fictional character for a day, who would you be?
12. If you found a magic lamp, what would your three wishes be?

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Envision your future family life with love and excitement.

"Planning a Family" helps couples navigate the exciting and sometimes daunting journey of starting a family. Discuss everything from parenting styles to future hopes, creating a shared vision for what your family could be. It's a meaningful way to align your aspirations and prepare for the next big step in your life together.

1. How do you envision our roles as parents?
2. What traditions from your childhood would you like to pass on?
3. How important is it to have a work-life balance when raising a family?
4. What are your thoughts on discipline and parenting styles?
5. How do you feel about the educational choices for our children?
6. How should we handle disagreements in parenting?
7. What are your views on screen time and technology for children?
8. How do you feel about the involvement of extended family in child-rearing?
9. What financial changes should we consider when planning for a family?
10. How do you envision daily family life?
11. What are your thoughts on childcare and babysitting?
12. How do we ensure we keep our relationship strong while parenting?

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Unearth the joy in shared and individual passions.

Celebrate each other's interests with "Hobbies & Leisure." This deck encourages couples to share their favorite pastimes, uncover new activities to enjoy together, and appreciate each other's individual passions. It's a delightful way to grow together, finding joy in both shared and separate hobbies.

1. What's your favorite way to unwind after a long day?
2. Have you ever volunteered as part of a leisure activity?
3. What’s your favorite memory related to a hobby?
4. Do you have a hobby that helps you stay fit?
5. What’s a hobby that you find really relaxing?
6. What’s a hobby that you think is underrated?
7. What's your favorite video or computer game?
8. Have you ever tried a hobby that took you out of your comfort zone?
9. What hobby have you always wanted to try but haven't yet?
10. What's a hobby that you've dedicated the most time to?
11. Do you have a hobby that also serves as a social activity?
12. Have you ever been part of a club or group for a hobby?

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Offer comfort and understanding in love’s tender spaces.

Approach sensitive topics with care in "Inner Struggles." This deck provides a safe space to discuss deeper emotional topics, helping you to offer support, gain understanding, and build trust. It's a journey of healing and empathy, strengthening your bond by sharing and navigating vulnerabilities together.

1. What experience from your past do you think shapes your fears today?
2. Can you share a moment from your childhood that you think still affects you?
3. Is there a specific event that you find hard to talk about even now?
4. What is one insecurity you wish you could overcome?
5. Do you have a fear that you feel is irrational? What is it?
6. How do you think your life would be different if a certain traumatic event hadn’t happened?
7. What is one thing you wish others knew about your struggles?
8. Is there a particular comment or criticism that you can't forget? Why do you think it stuck with you?
9. What is your usual reaction when faced with something that scares you?
10. Can you identify a pattern in your life that you believe is linked to a past trauma?
11. How has your self-image been affected by the experiences you’ve had?
12. What is a challenge you face regularly that others might not understand?

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